Greer Gang

No more posts needed on this adoption blog :)  Myles is officially part of the family and home (have we mentioned that before?!!!)  Now we'll only be posting on our family blog- GreerGang.

Really Home

Myles is HOME.  I can really breath now.  There is this enormous weight lifted off-that I didn't even realize the weight of, until now. Myles is HOME.  He has fit right into the space that was waiting for him in our hearts and our home.  The children are absolutely delighted with their brother--even refer to him as "brother" instead of Myles most of the time.  "Where's my brother Mom?"  "Can I just touch him while he sleeps?"  Our 4 year old Keith said to Daddy, "I'm crying happy tears because Myles is home!"  (he wasn't really crying, but it was cute nonetheless!!!)  Myles is HOME.  It was moving to see the bond that's already been created between siblings and grandparents.  My parents were able to have very tender moments with Myles before returning to Roanoke.  Peter's parents had a few hours here also before returning to Boston.  He is really loved!  I think, compared to the Myles-sized "crib" that he was spending all of his time in at the orphanage, he is elated when we put him in his crib in his room.  He is giddy when he stretches his adorable body out to go to sleep in his cozy crib.  After his bottle (still doing one in the middle of the night), he gives me the most breath-taking smile as I kiss him goodnight for the hundredth time.  Myles is HOME.  

We are HOME!

After an AMAZING 8 days in Rwanda, we rushed through our time in Ethiopia and we were able to leave Addis on Tuesday night!  We arrived home Wednesday at lunch.  Nana, Gramps, Keith, and Lili were waiting outside to welcome Myles home!  Steven Curtis Chapman's song "When Love Takes You Home" was the basis for the sign on the car.  :)

Saturday

We have had a great last few days-since everything was set by Thursday for Myles and his travel (and could have been on Wed if we had pushed)...we have had a wonderfully packed schedule with our friends here. It's been SO amazing being back in Rwanda with those that we love. We've uploaded again to our picasa web album. We think you'll notice how much Myles is changing! :) It's really remarkable how he's blossoming.

Yesterday we had a really significant time visiting Myles' orphanage for the last time. For the first time, I went in to Myles' room at the orphanage. It was just heartbreaking. It was really hard to leave the children there but incredible to leave with our son.

Today I was a bridesmaid in my Rwandan sister's gusaba (traditional wedding) :) The Baingana sisters (10 total) are amazing women who I was good friends with when we lived here...and they were so sweet to allow me to join them as a bridesmaid for Annet's wedding today. It was beautiful-with dancers and singing and lots and lots of Rwandan food. SUCH a blast. Myles loved it for a few hours and then slept soundly in his carseat.

We are leaving out about 20 other significant experiences- (inclduing meeting with the widows that Tara and I worked with--because of the sales of their cards we are able to buy a goat for EACH of the 50 women!)....

We are REALLY missing Keith and Lili. We leave for Ethiopia (for Myles visa) tomorrow afternoon. We are SAD to leave Rwanda and really wish we could just be going right home instead of going to Ethiopia. We cannot wait to bring Myles HOME!!!!

PLEASE pray that things go well in Ethiopia and please pray for us as we are missing the kids so much. (but know that they are having a total blast!!!)

His Eyes

Everyday we are with Myles his personality continues to blossom. Today was the day of belly laughter. I will never tire of looking into his eyes and hearing his laughter!

Sisters

We have had so many people supporting us throughout this entire adoption process, two of whom have already had a chance to meet Myles (before our friends and family in the States). Since we landed in Rwanda, my sisters Maggie and Bonita Baingana have been with us every step. Myles loves his Rwandan Aunty M and Aunty B. :) We have had so much fun even as we've waited in lines or spent the entire day in the car going to try to finalize paperwork for the adoption. It's remarkable to say that we really have ENJOYED the process here...we've met some incredible people, had some hysterical conversations in Kinyarwanda, and have loved every moment with Maggie and Bonita (and their fantastic families!) Love you ladies!

Travel Letter!

We got our travel letter today! You'll see Myles in a picture with the Minister of Gnder-she was delighted to meet him and sign his letter that allows him to be with us ALLLLL the time! :) He is sleeping soundly in our room right now, under a mosquito net. If you'd like to see pictures, we are going to be uploading them off an on to our picasa web album. Click here to see pictures!

Please pray for me, I'm hopefully getting over a nasty bug. :(

Meeting Myles!

We will never forget today, that's for sure! We couldn't have asked for a smoother union with Myles. We arrived on a crystal clear (typical) day in Rwanda and were greeted by Maggie and Bonita. We went to the Home of Hope (orphanage) with them and met a few of the nuns (who are French, Ugandan, Kenyan...all sent by the Mother Theresa Mission). Just as we arrived there, it began to rain-just a passing shower. We waited in a small room for them to bring Myles to us. Myles arrived through the rain-helping the nun hold the umbrella. It was SUCH a sweet meeting. He was happy to be held-very focused on our eyes, hair, shirts, and Nana's toy (after several minutes of being with him!)...he took a special liking to Peter's face-he kept reaching up to touch Peter's face. Unfortunately, due to a document we are still waiting on from the Ministry of Gender and Family Promotion (MOGFP) -- we were not able to have him stay with us and were given a 5:30 curfew with Myles-leaving us with only 3:30-5:30 with him today.

However we had a very significant bonding time with him in our hotel room. Peter gave him his first bottle, while Myles stared intently in Daddy's eyes. We then both gave him a sponge bath which he LOVED. We had to get the orphanage smell off of him. We lathered his adorable naked body up with lotion while he lay on his towel on our bed. We talked with him and did tummy time and worked on his core. Because he hasn't been encouraged to sit up, his core is weak (but normally so considering everything). We can tell the sisters have loved him so much. He just loved being tickled and cuddled-as seen in the belly laugh pictures. We found out he has double-dimples when he smiles and laughs, like sister Lili! :) This was such a precious time. After the laughing, cooing, and cuddling, we fed Myles some rice cereal. He loved it and insisted on feeding himself with the spoon-very cute (and messy!). We got laughing together. What beautiful music we made as family!

It was incredible to experience this day with Myles' "Aunties", our friends Maggie and Bonita. Bonita works for Gladney and we are finally able to talk openly about the experience (before this we worked directly with our caseworker who we ADORE!) We have changed where we are staying. We are staying with our pastor and his wife from when we lived here. They were adopted parents to us when we lived here-and it's SO great to be "home" again with them.

We returned him to "school"-as we told him--because it just sounds so wrong to call it an orphanage, when he isn't one anymore...but he is spending hopefully just 1 more night after this at sleep-away school with his crib buddies. Please please pray that we get the document that we need on Monday so that we can be with our son ALL of the time!!!!! We head to pick him up from "school" at 7am tomorrow-that's the earliest they would let us. (I asked for 5am...)

SO much love-and special hugs to Keith and Liliana0--we miss you so much!!! (thanks Gma and Gpa for being there to hug and love them during this time...and Nana and Gramps next week!!!)

for more first-day in Rwanda pics, click on this: webalbum

Leap to Your Son

On our way to the airport in the dark on Friday morning, I found a letter my friend had written to us that I just had to share.
Dear Laurel and Peter,

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." –Confucius

A single step over the threshold of your home to the car that will take you to the plane, to the other plane, to the other plane, to Rwanda, to Myles. Each step bringing you closer to the place always ‘known’ for you, and him.

A thousand memories await you. And then a thousand more. Your new son will delight you with every smile, every movement forward, every successful location of the picture ‘ball’ on a story book page. He’ll eliminate your good night’s sleep… to make it more precious by holding him in the dark. He’ll toss food on your freshly washed floor…he’ll learn to sing his ABC’s by listening to your voice… he’ll dance to the music that you play in the kitchen… he’ll adore his big brother Keith… he’ll laugh with his big sister Lili. He’ll want to be just like daddy one day. And he’ll know his mommy’s voice; it will calm him, sing to him, instruct him, wrap around him like a ‘cozy blanket for his soul.’

And he’ll be HOME. Then when he is grown, and thinks about his childhood – he’ll think of his sunshiny room, his backyard where he played with his brother and sister, his mommy’s smile, his daddy’s shoulders on which he sat upon and surveyed the world.

He’ll also be dearly, devotedly loved by a legion of friends and family. He has become all of ‘our Myles’, a picture of how love can grow and sustain, reaching across the continents and obstacles to bring a little boy home.

Sure, a thousand miles is a long way to go. But what would Confucius have said about a journey of over 8,000 miles, and back again? Maybe he wouldn’t have said it begins with a step… maybe something more like a leap.

So then…. Leap to your child. Leap over the oceans, and the hurdles, and the waiting. Leap to that child that has always been yours… and let there be no more miles between you.

Safe travels to you… can’t wait to meet the new addition to the Greer family, whom you’ve received as a little child in HIS name.

With love and prayers – Heather, John, Aidan and Jack Honeywater

We're OFF!

Today we are leaving. I haven't quite wrapped my head around it yet. When does it really hit? I have been aching for this boy for months and months--and I am going to be meeting him tomorrow?!!! Our son. Our miracle in Rwanda. Myles-we're on our way sweet boy!!!!